
Last issue, we braved
On the surface, Captains Courageous
As the adventure begins, we find a
Harvey staggers from the lounge and,
Who can blame Disko for believing
The crew of the We’re Here reflects the fact that they were hand-picked by a man as conscientious as Disko. From Manuel to Long Jack, the men are hard-working, sincere, honest, and—in their
Together, Harvey and the crew brave storms and bad luck, and catch and clean a ton of cod. The physical challenges teach Harvey something new almost every day. But the physical challenges don’t comprise the real adventure; the real adventure is spiritual.
Yes, Harvey moves from near-drowning to Gloucester Harbor in an uncertain craft on a journey fraught with danger. But this voyage is far less dramatic than his inner journey—from friendless boy to trustworthy friend. In life, the greatest adventures are rarely physical (there are far too few dragons threatening maidens in distress). The greatest adventures are our “pilgrim’s progress” toward a life more pleasing to our Maker. “This adventure,” says Christian author William Kilpatrick, “will take the form of a journey, but it will most likely be an interior journey. There will be a desire to tell the story, but the audience for it will be small: perhaps only one or two others will know, perhaps only God. The most common form this adventure takes is marrying and raising a family—although there are certainly other forms.”
The particular form that Harvey’s “interior journey” takes is that of learning friendship. As he is befriended by Dan and the rest of the crew, he pro-gresses down a path that too few men ever walk. In chancing this dangerous path—a place where disappointment looms near and he must constantly risk giving up part of himself—Harvey learns a few things about friendship. They are lessons we, too, should take to heart—if we dare risk such a daunting road.
Lesson #1: He who walks with the wise grows wise (Proverbs 13:20). If you run with the right crowd, they will be more likely to lead you down
Wait a minute, you say. Didn’t Disko and his crew run the risk of corrupting themselves when they took in the spoiled rich boy? After all, the rest of Proverbs 13:20 warns that “a companion of fools suffers harm.” Quite true. The equation is balanced, it seems, by numbers: too many fools spoil the mix—but an occasional fool now and then can benefit from associating with a lot of wise men. In other words, you may choose a few non-Christians as friends, and work faith-fully to help them trust Christ. But if you surround yourself with non-Christian friends, and abandon the fellowship of the Body, you will most likely suffer harm. There’s strength in numbers; Christians do well to make sure the majority they spend their time with are wise.
Lesson #2: Friends speak the truth in love. Does the true friend tell you when you have spinach in your teeth? Of course. The people we really count as friends, that we know we can depend on, are more interested in seeing us live right than in seeing us feel vaguely comfort-able. It may initially embarrass us to hear about the spinach in our teeth—but it saves us much more pain than if we find out about it later. Likewise, hearing that we’ve adopted a sinful attitude hurts, no matter who tells us that truth—but real friends will hurt us in that way to save us the pain of reaping the harvest of that sinful attitude. Loving others sometimes means hurting them—gently, and with the truth.
We find Dan teaching Harvey this lesson on Harvey’s first watch. The spoiled rich boy has little interest in staying alert; things seem calm, and he is sleepy. But Dan knows the dangers of shirking duty—he has heard the stories of fishing boats cut in two by wayward ocean liners. And because Dan knows the danger, he gently reminds his friend of his duty:
The moon, who sees many strange things on the Banks, looked down on a slim youth in knickerbockers and a red jersey, staggering around the cluttered decks of a seventy-ton schooner, while behind him, waving a knotted rope, walked, after the manner of an executioner, a boy who yawned and nodded between the blows he dealt.
True friends will help us live dutifully, even if reminding us occasionally means using the rope.
Lesson #3: True friends are more interested in giving than taking. How many times have you heard someone complain that they don’t have enough friends? The complaint itself betrays a mindset that disallows real friendship. By focusing on their need for more friends, people reveal that their greatest concern is themselves. They need more friends to feel more fulfilled. They are more interested in taking than in giving.
As the old saying goes, “To have a friend, be a friend.” People who constantly give of themselves never want for friends, because they practice the art of friendship each day. This is the hardest lesson to learn, but it is also the most valuable.
Harvey learns it slowly. It begins with the realization that both he and Dan have something to offer to each other. Harvey has seen the world; he can tell Dan about faraway places and the miracles of technology. Dan, on the other hand, under-stands life. In discussing their areas of expertise, both boys discover the benefits of sharing. This first step on the adventure of friendship leads, in turn, to a much greater sacrifice: Dan buys the knife of a dead sailor—a knife made all the more attractive because it is rumored to have killed a man—and willingly turns over this most prized possession to Harvey. Though he may never find another treasure like it, Dan gives the knife away because—well, because that’s what friendship is about. The friend who cannot give cannot long remain a friend.
On the other hand, the friend who gives—who goes so far as to die to himself (John 15:13)—is to be esteemed among all men. “There is a friend,” says Proverbs 18:24, “who sticks closer than a brother.” According to C.S. Lewis, natural life “has no better gift to give. Who could have deserved it?”
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